The mobile phone was so hot that she could barely hold it, but her tears were like broken beads that could not be stopped. As her closest friend, how can I comfort her and soothe this deep pain for her?
She is young, beautiful and radiant. No matter where she goes, men's eyes would always pause on her for at least three seconds. There has never been a lack of suitors around her, yet she always treated them with ignorance and disdain. For no other reason than they lacked what she valued - company, vehicles, housing property and most importantly, money.
One day eventually, she bragged to me about her new life. She enjoyed a two thousand dollar combo for two, wore sparkling diamond jewellery and lived in a luxurious villa overlooking the ocean. I admitted that the house was truly enchanting, and that the sea breeze from the window seemed to be able to blow away all the sorrows in the world. But I told her that it was just a house, not a real home. Because what that man could give her was only material satisfaction, but not a real home.
Two years later, her life doesn't seem to have changed much. She still drove a luxury car, wearing an expensive mink coat, the diamond ring on her hand glittered under the sun. Everyone envied her life, but only I could observe her inner pain. Because for her, that house was always just a house, not a home full of warmth and love.
She once told me in tears that he suggested they separate for a month so that she could try to find her own happiness. He said it lightly, as if it were a simple thing to do. Yet, where should she go to find it? Not every man possessed unending wealth to squander. How was she supposed to fit in with men who couldn't maintain her current living standard when she was already used to a life of luxury?
He is always complaining about his relationship with his wife, yet we have witnessed a happy family of four. He always talks about divorce, but the reality is so cruel. I think he may have grown tired of this life; he has a wife and lovely children, and his love has never really been invested in her. But in these two years, she unknowingly gave her whole feelings, and in the end, the only one who got hurt was herself.
As women, we should always warn ourselves never to be the mistress because no matter what the reason is, we should not destroy other people's love and marriage. Maybe you love his wealth, but even a million dollars can't buy a real home; maybe you love his status, but even the highest official position can't make you a real official wife; maybe you love his humour or talent, but these can't make him a man for you alone.
If you really love him, then please silently bless his original marriage and love. In doing so, you not only save yourself but also his wife. Today he can betray his wife to be with you, so tomorrow he may betray you to be with another woman. We should cherish ourselves and pursue our own happy life and true love.
