They listed a lot of "love brain diseases", such as emotions always affected by the other side, attention all on the other side, easy to forgive each other's faults, etc.:
Her every move, a little bit of change, a little bit of perfunctory, will be infinitely magnified by me.
This paragraph, in the past, may be as romantic as the "teenage Witt's trouble" narrative, and in the eyes of the person who posted, love brain disease is in a terminal period with no cure.
Not only are extremely irrational behaviours considered to be love-brain, but in the eyes of many, even the emotions that are prevalent in love have become love-brain manifestations.
With such a standard, many love-themed film and literature classics have become love brain samples: Lin Daiyu is always thinking of the philandering Jia Baoyu, love brain; Rose gives up the rich young master for the poor boy on the Titanic, love brain; Yuan Xiangqin doesn't do well in her studies and always thinks of Jiang Zhishu, love brain......
As a result, many young men and women facing a relationship in platforms such as Hupu and Douban, instead of opening their arms and experiencing the fluttering of love, are on guard to avoid any manifestation of their love brain for fear that as soon as they get serious, they will lose.
For many boys, the common discussion is to be alert to "fisher women", and to guard their assets well, so as not to become someone else's ATM machine due to their love brain.
For girls, they should be more alert to all the risks brought by the love brain, and should even advocate "to use male thinking to love": look down on love, pursue rationality, reduce paying, seek momentary happiness, and view friends as hands and feet and men as clothes ......
III. In a Relationship, Do You Really Need to be So Rational?
There is little point in abstract love; it is the practical usefulness of the relationship that counts, and relationships need to be more purposeful and self-interested.
This kind of judgement on love sounds reasonable at first glance, but it may develop into an over-rationalisation of love, viewing love as a tool entirety.
For example, over the years, the circle of the public examination and graduate school has a popular saying: "the first sword to go ashore is to chop the person you love." It refers to the fact that after the success of the examination, the original boyfriend or girlfriend should be dumped.
The implied meaning of this sentence is that the disembarkation of their own ascension to a new class will give one more negotiating capital in the marriage market, so you should give up the partner who has been unworthy.
This concept of choosing the right person for the right family and the right match may seem very old, but it has become more and more obvious in Chinese society over the past two decades.
According to a study on education-based marriages, compared to the pre-reform and opening-up period, young people nowadays are more concerned with the need to have a comparable level of education in their marriages, which is also known as "the right match".

In some cases, before the middle-aged and the elderly begin to praise the importance of a suitable relationship, the younger generation is already ahead of them. They accurately compare the conditions of both sides in the relationship, and scolded the relationship with lower-condition people is "poverty alleviation", "down-married", "self-degradation", and behind this, economic rationality is to blame.
In other words, some young people's anxiety about love brain and even relationship is not only a response to the tense gender relationship, but also a kind of fear of falling down the ladder, so it is necessary to resist the risk and protect the interests with the greatest degree of rationality.
Ultimately, there is no need to deify love, or to grovel and self-sacrifice for it. But in love, there is little point in emphasising rationality too much. Partners are our teammates who stand side by side against the futility of life, not opponents with whom you need to fight for every cent.
When love, and even life, falls flat in the day-to-day waste, we will know that a proper love brain is not a deluge, but a precious experience that evokes passion for life.