Last time we said that women will be more likely to follow their needs because of their natural weaknesses in physical fitness. So what will men with their natural advantages follow? What aspects of women are men more likely to be attracted to?
Firstly, why do we always have the sense that men only look at the face and body of women? Because the eyes of the people are discerning. Men are just that shallow, at least for the vast majority of men.
This superficiality reflects the biggest difference between men and women. Men follow their feelings rather than needs. It is males who are the most emotional.
Men are often attracted to hobbies. So, what we usually say about catering to each others’ preferences is only useful when women are chasing men. It doesn't work the other way around. A male chasing a female needs to snoop in. This is the biggest difference between the way men and women approach their initial relationship.
The reason why men are more likely to follow their feelings is attributable to their natural physical advantage. When you have a greater advantage in a competition, you're freer. Likewise, compared to the poor students, the top students will always have more freedom.
Surely, in modern society, physical fitness no longer determines social contribution. But it doesn't mean there is no advantage. The advantages that come with physical fitness are undeniable.
That is why men still think more about hobbies, while women think more about needs. This distinction is not something that can be changed by education or perception. It is decided upon by the degree of social contribution. That's why strong women are different from ordinary women: they are more like men. They think more about personal preferences as men do. And when both sex choose their mates based on hobbies, there is often a conflict. This is the reason why strong women have a harder time finding a mate. Lovely girls, on the other hand, are males’ favourite.
So the trait that women are most likely to attract men is the ability to cater to their preferences.
And the difference between the choices of men and women creates a contradiction with the development of productivity levels in modern society. This choice difference is no longer in line with the trend of forming new social relations. Fast-food relationships and the decline in marriage rates have a lot to do with this. But let's leave this question next time.