"Wait Until the Children Grow up before Divorcing" Is the Last Consensus of Some Chinese Parents' Marriages

Divorce doesn't always harm children. Some children are grateful for their parents' divorce as it led to a better life...

What to Do When You Meet a Scummy Man | A Guide to Self-help for the Severely Love-starved Pleasure Type Personality

People who love too much, like Jill, mistake pain for love and may have compulsive obsessions. They're often attracted...

Why Did Dad "Leave Home"?

The "superman" expectations of fathers explain their absence. Fathers have a desire and fear regarding economic status...

If the Person who Hurt Me Has a Difficulty, Where Can I Put My Grievances?

Some oppose talking about the original family, but it's a valuable experience. It helps integrate feelings, and negati...

Three Tips from a Counsellor on Falling out of Love

After a breakup, it's important to watch over rather than guide a friend, as rational advice may not work. Allow all n...

Using Breakup to Express "I Need You"?

People who threaten to break up often have attachment anxiety due to lack of self-confidence. Attachment characteristi...

Why Do I Never Let Myself Go? Discussion of "Self-punishment."

Self-punishment involves various forms like irrational self-blame, abusive relationships, and self-harm. It's driven b...

What Is Remembered May Not Eventually Be Echoed

Whether a close relationship can turn into a pure friendship after a breakup is controversial. Couples with a pleasant...

7 Tricks to Break Up

There are several common breakup tricks. Dodging/withdrawing involves avoiding communication and interaction. Being po...

Is Sacrificing Yourself in an Intimate Relationship Really for Your Partner's Good?

Chinese emotional dramas often feature self-sacrifice in relationships, like in "Mr. Good", which reflects the idea of...