"Evading Love with Indifference and Detachment."

Some single people show avoidant attachment in relationships. They fear intimacy, have pseudo-independence, and may be...

In the Face of Cheating, How to Write a Zhou Yangqing style "Steady and Accurate" Break-up Letter

The Luo Zhixiang cheating incident led to a discussion on dealing with betrayal. People who experience betrayal in an ...

In the Face of a Cheating Partner, Is Forgiving the Ultimate Goal?

Society is more tolerant of cheating, and when a celebrity cheats, public reaction to the victim's choice of forgiving...

It's Never Easy to Leave

Breakups are a process. Ritualized behaviors like haircutting, deleting photos, and revisiting old haunts may help or ...

Why Do I Feel Uncomfortable When People Are Nice to Me?

The discomfort when people are nice can be manifested in various ways. In counselling, some feel anxious about express...

"I Wish You Well, But Not Too Well."

The author's experience of feeling jealous of a successful friend reveals the complex nature of jealousy in friendship...

Care of "Self"

Psychology has different views on the concept of "self", with one seeing it as fixed after adulthood and the other as ...

The Pain of the Unmarried

Unmarried people face significant pressure. The stressors include parents' urging, social expectations, and filial pie...

This Kind of "Mental Abuse" in Love Is More Terrible Than "Cold Violence".

The article discusses "mental abuse" in intimate relationships, a more insidious form than domestic violence. It's an ...

Honey, Your Feelings Matter to Me.

Complaints about lack of emotional connection in relationships often stem from Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN). CEN ...