"After Breaking Up, I Still Want You to Miss Me."

After college breakups, the one broken up often struggles. They may desire to know everything about the ex, get caught...

How Do We Reconcile with Our Desires?

The protagonist in a story experiences relationships in Tokyo. After leaving an initial relationship for more, she mar...

Are You a Baby in Love?

The author realized that she was projecting her unfulfilled childhood desires onto her boyfriend. Her mother's lack of...

"Wait Until the Children Grow up before Divorcing" Is the Last Consensus of Some Chinese Parents' Marriages

Divorce doesn't always harm children. Some children are grateful for their parents' divorce as it led to a better life...

What to Do When You Meet a Scummy Man | A Guide to Self-help for the Severely Love-starved Pleasure Type Personality

People who love too much, like Jill, mistake pain for love and may have compulsive obsessions. They're often attracted...

Why Did Dad "Leave Home"?

The "superman" expectations of fathers explain their absence. Fathers have a desire and fear regarding economic status...

If the Person who Hurt Me Has a Difficulty, Where Can I Put My Grievances?

Some oppose talking about the original family, but it's a valuable experience. It helps integrate feelings, and negati...

Three Tips from a Counsellor on Falling out of Love

After a breakup, it's important to watch over rather than guide a friend, as rational advice may not work. Allow all n...

Using Breakup to Express "I Need You"?

People who threaten to break up often have attachment anxiety due to lack of self-confidence. Attachment characteristi...

Why Do I Never Let Myself Go? Discussion of "Self-punishment."

Self-punishment involves various forms like irrational self-blame, abusive relationships, and self-harm. It's driven b...