The Man who Sexually Assaulted Me Used to be My "Uncle."

Isla was sexually assaulted by "Uncle Mike", a family friend, from age seven. The assaults occurred in her home, and h...

People Who Grow up Without Love Spend Their Lives Looking for Security

Insecure people in love, like the friend with "affectation" behavior, may have ambivalent attachment from childhood. T...

Either Get Married or Break Up? Is There a Future for Our Relationship or Not?

Xiaolin's brother-sister relationship is in a dilemma. Her previous relationships also had issues due to her lack of i...

Why Is There a Third Party in Our Relationship?

Affairs in relationships cause great pain and often lead to divorce. They occur due to various reasons. Lack of emotio...

"What You Care about Hurts You."

In intimate relationships, jealousy, an emotional response to a threat to intimacy, is often hard to admit. It has sig...

Choosing Who to Marry, in the Final Analysis, Is Choosing What Kind of Suffering

Marriage is like a gamble as we often don't fully know each other before tying the knot. Historically, various reasons...

There Are Thousands of Ways to Hurt Your Partner, But Why Is Cheating Especially Unforgivable?

Cheating in relationships, especially of celebrities, draws much attention. The definition of cheating varies, but it'...

Is Your Partner the Right Person to Marry? 6 Tips to Help You Decide

Deciding whether to marry involves various considerations. As the decision approaches, suspicion may increase, but it'...

Do You Really Know How to Care for Others?

Caring for others is an important lesson. Xiao A's parents' way of asking numerous questions to show concern made her ...

"After Breaking Up, I Still Want You to Miss Me."

After college breakups, the one broken up often struggles. They may desire to know everything about the ex, get caught...

How Do We Reconcile with Our Desires?

The protagonist in a story experiences relationships in Tokyo. After leaving an initial relationship for more, she mar...

Are You a Baby in Love?

The author realized that she was projecting her unfulfilled childhood desires onto her boyfriend. Her mother's lack of...

"Wait Until the Children Grow up before Divorcing" Is the Last Consensus of Some Chinese Parents' Marriages

Divorce doesn't always harm children. Some children are grateful for their parents' divorce as it led to a better life...

What to Do When You Meet a Scummy Man | A Guide to Self-help for the Severely Love-starved Pleasure Type Personality

People who love too much, like Jill, mistake pain for love and may have compulsive obsessions. They're often attracted...

Why Did Dad "Leave Home"?

The "superman" expectations of fathers explain their absence. Fathers have a desire and fear regarding economic status...

If the Person who Hurt Me Has a Difficulty, Where Can I Put My Grievances?

Some oppose talking about the original family, but it's a valuable experience. It helps integrate feelings, and negati...

Three Tips from a Counsellor on Falling out of Love

After a breakup, it's important to watch over rather than guide a friend, as rational advice may not work. Allow all n...

Using Breakup to Express "I Need You"?

People who threaten to break up often have attachment anxiety due to lack of self-confidence. Attachment characteristi...

Why Do I Never Let Myself Go? Discussion of "Self-punishment."

Self-punishment involves various forms like irrational self-blame, abusive relationships, and self-harm. It's driven b...

What Is Remembered May Not Eventually Be Echoed

Whether a close relationship can turn into a pure friendship after a breakup is controversial. Couples with a pleasant...