Why Do I Never Let Myself Go? Discussion of "Self-punishment."

Self-punishment involves various forms like irrational self-blame, abusive relationships, and self-harm. It's driven b...

What Is Remembered May Not Eventually Be Echoed

Whether a close relationship can turn into a pure friendship after a breakup is controversial. Couples with a pleasant...

7 Tricks to Break Up

There are several common breakup tricks. Dodging/withdrawing involves avoiding communication and interaction. Being po...

Is Sacrificing Yourself in an Intimate Relationship Really for Your Partner's Good?

Chinese emotional dramas often feature self-sacrifice in relationships, like in "Mr. Good", which reflects the idea of...

"Evading Love with Indifference and Detachment."

Some single people show avoidant attachment in relationships. They fear intimacy, have pseudo-independence, and may be...

In the Face of Cheating, How to Write a Zhou Yangqing style "Steady and Accurate" Break-up Letter

The Luo Zhixiang cheating incident led to a discussion on dealing with betrayal. People who experience betrayal in an ...

In the Face of a Cheating Partner, Is Forgiving the Ultimate Goal?

Society is more tolerant of cheating, and when a celebrity cheats, public reaction to the victim's choice of forgiving...

It's Never Easy to Leave

Breakups are a process. Ritualized behaviors like haircutting, deleting photos, and revisiting old haunts may help or ...

Why Do I Feel Uncomfortable When People Are Nice to Me?

The discomfort when people are nice can be manifested in various ways. In counselling, some feel anxious about express...

"I Wish You Well, But Not Too Well."

The author's experience of feeling jealous of a successful friend reveals the complex nature of jealousy in friendship...

Care of "Self"

Psychology has different views on the concept of "self", with one seeing it as fixed after adulthood and the other as ...

The Pain of the Unmarried

Unmarried people face significant pressure. The stressors include parents' urging, social expectations, and filial pie...

This Kind of "Mental Abuse" in Love Is More Terrible Than "Cold Violence".

The article discusses "mental abuse" in intimate relationships, a more insidious form than domestic violence. It's an ...

Honey, Your Feelings Matter to Me.

Complaints about lack of emotional connection in relationships often stem from Childhood Emotional Neglect (CEN). CEN ...

Why You May Be Bathing in a River of Love That Is Not Love but Self-indulgence?

Lian Lian met a Mr. Perfect and felt excited about the potential relationship. After getting his number, she waited fo...

Not Only Are They Not Getting Married, Young People Aren't Even in Love Anymore | How Is Love Evolved Out?

This year's Tanabata saw a decline in marriages in some regions. Young people seem to be "evolving" out of love. The d...

Is It True that the Standard Answer to the Question "How Many Lovers Have You Had?" Is 3?

The article explores the relationship between past relationship experiences and the willingness to engage in a new rel...

Do Long-distance Relationships Deserve No Good Results? If You Do These Things, You Can Also Get Rid of the "Breakup Curse"

Long-distance relationships are often feared as "break-up relationships" due to physical distance and uncertainty of f...

Is the Single Life of Young People Still Good If They Don't Get Married or Fall in Love?

Miss G's experience as a single bridesmaid led to the topic of single anxiety. Despite single life's advantages like f...

Why Do Some People Fall in Love Too Quickly and Too Often? There Is a Disease Called ......

Love addiction, characterized by quick and frequent romantic feelings, was studied. Its cause may be related to person...